@voodoobettie, i'm a single mom and have always let her play (first in crib, now in totally babyproofed bedroom) while i shower. I sneak off to code before I shower, just for a few minutes. But to be totally honest, I also am unemployed and I get three hours of childcare each morning - that's when I do some of it! I'm just behind you, finishing up the waypoints. Let me know how the bonfires are - I'm a little nervous! If I catch up w you I'd love to pair. How old is your todder btw? Mine is 18 months!